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🌍 A Wake-Up Call for All of Us
How many of us have walked away from nursery gates or school doors…
Heart heavy. Tears burning.
A crying child behind us.
A voice ahead telling us,
“Just go, they’ll settle.”
And we did.
Even though every cell of our body screamed this isn't right.
Because we were taught to override our instincts
To prioritise expectation over intuition.
But at what cost?
We’ve been conditioned to live & parent for the system, not the soul.
To raise children who “fit in,” even if that means they must shrink, suppress, or silence parts of themselves.
And in doing so…
We slowly forgot how to listen to our own truth, energy & needs.
✨ When did we stop asking - does this make me happy?
✨ When did dreaming become “unrealistic”?
✨ When did freedom and joy stop being valid reasons to choose a path, a job, a way of being?
We grew up in a world that measures worth by performance.
That rewarded silence, obedience, and conformity.
And now we carry those wounds into adulthood
Still trying to be “good enough,”
Still disconnecting from our bodies, our joy, our voice.
But the rise of neurodivergent souls is not a crisis.
It’s a revolution.
A mirror.
A divine interruption.
They are not here to be fixed.
They are here to free us.
To say:
This world is not built for emotional truth.
But we can rebuild it.
🌀 What if we had been raised in a world that honoured sensitivity as strength?
🌀 That centred joy, curiosity, and love as the compass for life?
🌀 Who would we be… if we hadn’t been taught to abandon ourselves so young?
We don’t just need new ways to raise our children
We need new ways to raise ourselves.
It’s time to return home to what we always knew.
To stop parenting and living for the system.
And start living from soul, truth, and sovereignty.
Because the next generation is not here to repeat our pain.
They are here to remind us
We were never meant to live this way
Much love Ciji 🤍
#wakeup #healingjourney
#SystemFailure #conciousliving #newearth #honouryourself #soulledliving #alignment #changeyourmindchangeyourlife #rewireyourmind #stepintoyourpower #spiritualawakening #soulgrowth
🌕 Sacred Circle Call
The moon has spoken…
Her light has illuminated what’s ready to rise, to be felt, and to be freed.
And now, on this sacred Friday the 13th — a day once revered as holy for the feminine
I so feel the call
To sit in circle.
To return to the ancient.
To hold space for each other in reverence and remembrance.
To heal, to soften, to reconnect with the truth beneath the noise.
✨ You are invited to a sacred gathering ✨
A space of soul, of ceremony, of connection.
Where no masks are needed.
Where your truth is welcome.
This is for the woman who knows in her bones that she is ready for more.
💫 Let this be your sign.
If your soul is whispering - come join us.
You are so deeply welcome here.
🌀 When: Saturday 14th June @ 6pm
📍 Where: Barnwood Reading rooms GL3 4JT
💖 Bring: An open heart and your truth.
#WomensCircle #FullMoonHealing #Friday13thMagic #DivineFeminine #SacredSisterhood #EnchantedSanctuary #healingjourney
✨ Honour Your Light ✨
There comes a moment on the healing path when we realise,
we’ve been waiting.
Waiting for permission.
For validation.
For a sign that it’s safe to be who we truly are.
But what if the sign… is you?
So many of us sensitive, heart-led souls
learned to dim our light
in the name of humility,
in the name of safety,
in the name of being enough for everyone else.
We were taught to bend, to people-please,
to measure our worth through the comfort of others.
And in doing so, we placed the key to our freedom
outside of ourselves.
Often, we keep looking outward for love, for answers, for worth, not realising that it's become a distraction,
from the very places within that are longing to be seen.
The wounds we avoid hold the wisdom we seek.
✨ True healing begins when we stop running and turn inward with love.
When we accept all of who we are - scars, shadows, beauty, brilliance alike.
Because the truth is
🌕 Your light was never too much.
🌕 Your power was never wrong.
🌕 Your gifts were never meant to be hidden.
The only real restriction is the one we still carry inside
the old belief that we must shrink to be loved.
Today, honour this truth with me ...
🤍 I give myself permission to rise.
🤍 To shine without apology.
🤍 To walk in the fullness of my essence.
Because when we honour ourselves, we give others permission to do the same.
And this is how we change the world.
From the inside out.
Your light is needed.
Your truth is sacred.
You are already are and have always been enough.
✨ It’s time. Come home to yourself. ✨
#AuthenticSelf #Healingjourney #PermissionToShine #EmpoweredLiving #SacredSelf #EnchantedSanctuary #selflove #reclamation #turninward #radicalacceptance #honouryourself
Nature Medicine 🌞🌕
Today I gifted myself the sacred space to simply be...walking barefoot on the earth, breathing with the trees, and letting the energy of the sun soothe my soul.
In the stillness of the woods in the morning and the beauty of this evenings sunset, I found what I’d been seeking
✨ Reconnection
✨ Recentering
✨ Realignment
Each step was a gentle return to my breath, to my body, to the truth within.
Nature holds us without condition. She reminds us how to slow, soften, and listen. She gently regulates the nervous system in a way nothing else quite can.
Today, I remembered
🌿 I am safe to be still.
🌿 I am allowed to pause.
🌿 I am already whole.
Let this be your reminder too.
#natureheals #soulledliving #peacefulmoments #motherearth #grounding #pauseandreflect #slowdown #meditation #breathe
🌕🍓 Strawberry Full Moon Blessings 🍓🌕
Tonight, under the soft glow of the Strawberry Full Moon, we are being invited into ripening 🍓✨️ into the fullness of who we are becoming.
This moon symbolizes sweetness after struggle, fruition after tending, and the heart’s readiness to receive.
✨ It is a time to release the weight we no longer wish to carry.
✨ A time to honour our growth - the seen and the unseen.
✨ A time to return to the sacredness of sisterhood, healing, and soulful alignment.
This Saturday, we gather in sacred space for our Enchanted Women’s Healing Circle, a sanctuary for deep release, soul nourishment, and remembrance. Together, we’ll weave our stories, our wisdom, and our healing under the potent echo of this moon’s energy.
Come as you are, bring what is ready to be transformed, and allow yourself to be held.
🌸Sacred sharing
✨️Energetic healing
🕯️ Ritual & release
💗 Embodied connection
Let this moon be a mirror of your wholeness.
DM to reserve your place in the circle or to feel into whether this space is calling you.
Much love
Ciji 💕
#womenscircle #womensupportingwomen #EnchantedSanctuary #ReikiHealing #soulledliving #spiritualjourney #healingvibes #sisterhood #uplifting #stepintoyourpower #selflovematters #selfcare
All set up and ready to go 🧘🏼♀️✨️💗
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Join us for an empowering evening Saturday 14th June ... a safe space for healing, connection and peace with guided meditations, reiki healing, spiritual guidance and connection. Feel supported and held in the sacred energy of feminine empowerment, wellbeing and relaxation, where you feel heard, seen and welcomed.
Much love Ciji 🤍✨️x
✨️Soul inquiry✨️
If we were to imagine a world truly rooted in freedom, love, harmony, and soul alignment ... where children were nurtured, not conditioned.
Many of the traits we currently label as “difficult,” “rebellious,” or “defiant” might actually be seen as:
✨️Truth-telling
✨️Energetic sensitivity
✨️Creative resistance
✨️Embodied wisdom refusing to conform
✨️A mirror to the worlds imbalance
What if their “misbehavior” is actually communicating the disconnection they feel in a society built on fear, competition, and control?
These children, especially the neurodiverse, sensitives, starseeds, indigos, however we wish to name them - often carry a different frequency. They were never meant to mold into the old world. Instead, may be they are here to:
✨️Anchor a new consciousness
✨️Refuse what is false
✨️Bring in new ways of being
✨️Show us where the system wounds rather than supports
Their so-called "dysregulation" is often a direct response to being in environments that deny their emotional, energetic, and spiritual needs. And unlike us they are not conditioned to shut up and put up.
If we lived in a world governed by heart intelligence, soul-led learning, collaboration over coercion, would we still see the same levels of anger, shutdown, hyperactivity, or emotional struggle?
Possibly not because:
✨️They wouldn’t need to fight to be heard.
✨️They wouldn’t feel unsafe in their bodies and nervous systems.
✨️They wouldn’t need to armour themselves with defiance.
✨️They could express rather than suppress.
Their behaviors could transmute into gifts — intuition, leadership, emotional insight, inventiveness, healing abilities, if nurtured in the right environment.
The world they’ve entered is vibrating beneath their natural frequency. They are here to disrupt, to help us to awaken, to break the patterns of suppression, fear and manipulation.
Let us listen not just with ears, but with our essence.
Their nervous systems are saying,
"This is not the world we were meant to live in."
Let us stop asking, “What’s wrong with these children?”
And begin asking,
“What can we heal in ourselves and our world,
so they no longer have to scream it for us?”
So many of us and our children are struggling within outdated systems that don’t honour the soul. Exhausted, stressed, separated and in states of dis-regulation.
It's time to change that - to release the limitations and old beliefs and reconnect to our souls light and truth 🤍
#nervoussystemhealing #soulledliving #alignment #parenting #SoulfulParenting #spiritualjourney #awakening #understanding #expansion
Looking forward to taking part in this amazing event next Sunday ✨️🙌🏼💗 Be great to see you there x
You may have noticed…
More and more children are arriving on Earth with more sensitive hearts, creative minds that defy convention, and ways of being that challenge the status quo.
They may be labelled as autistic, ADHD, highly sensitive, or neurodivergent.
But from a higher perspective, these labels do not define them they cover their true brilliance.
They are not here to fit into outdated systems, they are here to evolve them.
These children struggle not because they are broken, but because the world was not built to hold their light.
And so, we are being called, as parents, carers, and allies, to meet them where they are.
To:
💗 Honour their pace and preferences
💗 Support their nervous systems with gentleness
💗 Create safety for expression beyond words
They are here to teach us what it means to live in deep presence. To feel - to question. To move with instinct and insight rather than instruction.
This rise in neurodivergent children is no accident.
Let us walk the path of the sacred parent - one who chooses reverence over rules, intuition over instruction, and relationship over regulation.
That is no small task but these children chose you for a reason.
Not because you had all the answers — but because you hold the willingness to remember. To decondition. To unlearn what disconnects. And to rebuild a way of parenting that is more spacious, soulful, and aligned with truth.
You were raised in a world that often taught you to suppress your intuition, silence your feelings, and seek permission to be yourself.
And now you are raising children who refuse to be silenced.
They cry louder.
They feel deeper.
They resist harder.
They ask for truth instead of obedience.
You are not doing it wrong
You are witnessing the undoing of generations of restriction.
You are not failing when they challenge you
You are being initiated into a freer way.
You were taught to control.
They are here to teach you how to connect.
You were conditioned to conform.
They are here to teach you how to listen.
You were raised to be “good.”
They are here to help you become whole.
Let this parenting journey guide you back to your own freedom.
Let their sacred difference be your liberation.
Let their unspoken wisdom be your invitation to slow down, soften, and feel what’s real.
They are not here to be changed.
They are here to change us ... to remind us of what it means to be fully human, fully alive, and fully in tune with the language of soul.
With love and reverence
Ciji
Enchanted Sanctuary
#neurodiversity #spiritualjourney #awakening #soulledliving #expansion #parenting #soulfulparenting #understanding #nervoussystemhealing #alignment